From lost to found…

Gosh guys… Do you ever sit down and wonder what you were doing this time a few years back?  It’s so funny how things change, life changes, friends change, YOU change.  I remember clearly what I was doing in Miami a few years back.

Most likely drinking, having sex in random spots, and just being a hot mess with no goals and no respect for myself.  Listen I am pretty blunt and open about my life and one thing my husband appreciates it my honesty.  You’ll never get the sugar shit overload version, I am all, but real over here guys.

Jasandra then….

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Without a doubt you would always find me with a cigarette, some weed, or a drink in my hand.  It was my life.  No boyfriends, no responsibilities, just work and friends to live life with. I swear I was living the dream..Well at least I thought that. Till I met an ex started drinking and being a wild child.  I lost my job, I lost friends, I lost my ex.  It was hard, it was heartbreaking, I thought I was going to die. Ladies come on you know that “one” true love always hurts the most.

Moving along.. being young is fun.  No responsibility, no attachments, no kids, and you live free to do whatever he hell you want. I miss those days.  Not because I hate my life now because I live a happy life.  My life is exactly what I have always wanted, but me and my husband sit and talk sometimes about the past about our lives before and how we miss not having responsibilities.

You know though, I wont lie and you tell me if I am right. Kids are rough. Kids are tough and being a parent is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, along with being a wife. Its not all cookies and cream, its all hard work. It takes dedication, It takes communication, it takes falling down and getting back up.

Its the hardest most amazing thing i have ever done in my life and I do not regret one day. not one minute. not one fight. not one bad day because with all the heartaches theres more days of love, laughter, wrestling, giggles, cuddles, sex (can you ever have too much?, vacations, i love yous.

Jasandra now?

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Now… I am married to the love of my life. I have a beautiful daughter who I call my little “miracle.” I have my own health and fitness business helping women be the best version of themselves they can be, amazing supportive friends.  I take care of myself, workout, and teach my family that even though we live on a budget we can still live life the healthy way.  I am happy, healthy, loving, and a changed woman.  I go out with my ladies for out girls night, I go out with my husband on dates ( cant wait for ours tomorrow), we live a life of meaning, a life of support, a life to change the world.

Change is hard.Chard is tough.Change is challenging, but oh man when you aren’t happy with who you are and you make that commitment to change yourself for better… The reward is so much more fulfilling.

So yes..
People can change.
Don’t ever judge a book my its cover.
You don’t know where people come from.
There is always time to be a better version of yourself if you’re not happy.
Stop making excuses and go for it.
Life will happen.

 

Always, Jasandra
 

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