I think it took me about 2 hours to write this blog out… I still have no idea what the fuck I want to write about, but here I am… Because I can… So lately I have found myself struggling with a few changes going on in my life which is why I have been pretty absent.
Let me ask you a question right now. How many times have you been so excited to tell someone a goal you have, fo them to turn around and give you the stank eye with the whole “That is going to be hard. It’s going to take time. You’ll need to be dedicated. You won’t have a life”. That shit hits you in the feels the moment you hear it and the doubts you didn’t have, start strolling in. You start to question yourself. You start to wonder if this goal is attainable. You start to panic. I mean can you really accomplish all your goals? My answer to you is yes, but I’m going to be real for a quick second here. Thats been me lately, the person that gets told its going to be so hard and I won’t achieve my goals… I’ve listened to the negative words people have said to me, and I’ve stepped back from my goals.
Yet here I am today, a day where I called in sick because I’ve been awake since 3am vomiting my heart away. You know what I’ve done all day? Lay in bed and think. Think about my goals. The accomplishments I have had. Ive watched Sex and the City and resonated with some of the ladies because they too (tv show or not) can relate to my experiences. What that fuck have we been doing ladies? We have been letting other people determine the outcome of OUR lives. That shit needs to stop right now. I know for a fact that I, plus many of you ladies have tons of goals. A new job, a new relationship, a new house, to lose weight, to write a book, to open a blog, to open your own business… We all have those goals, but we need to stop being afraid of success.
Why is success such a scary subject? You know why? Because it’s not easy getting there and it comes with a lot of work, a lot of dedications, a lot of late night, a lot more work and a whole lot of less play. Shit, I’m wiring this and thinking about all the little things I need to do for my coaching business. I feel so lost, but these days there’s so many help and so many other people who won’t be negative about you wanting to succeed. It’s not easy, but can you imagine if we never quit the first 500 times where we would be right now? Probably a lot closer to success then we currently are.
So who gives a fuck if you lose a few friends, who cares if you have to stay in longer, who cares if people tell you its going to be hard… Prove them wrong.. Better yet Prove yourself wrong and soar babe.